I came across this FABULOUS interactive table about Minnesota’s aging population created by the folks at Face Aging MN. Very interesting to play around with it and see the expected growth/aging by county. When I look at it, it highlights the need for us to put in place more services for our aging residents, as well as for those who provide care for our residents. Kudos to Face Aging MN for this valuable resource!
What do you do if your elderly parent needs help making decisions?
- Determine what level of help that they need. This is often easier said than done. You should look at their physical, mental and emotional health and try to determine whether they are still in a position to make their own decisions. Sometimes the elderly can still come to their own decision about their medical care, where they live, etc., but they simply need help implementing their decisions. Sometimes the elderly have become so cognitively impaired, or are so vulnerable, that they can no longer even make their own decision, let alone implement it. Most times, the elderly lie somewhere in between these two extremes. Figuring out what level of help they need often requires the input of the elderly person’s physician. Sometimes you can tell what level of assistance is needed just based upon your own interactions with mom or dad.
- If mom or dad can still make their own decisions, but just need help implementing their decisions, you should take them to an estate planning attorney who can meet with them and get legal documents or other things in place that will allow someone else to help them implement their decisions. These things range from joint accounts to a health care directive to a power of attorney. The estate planning attorney could even put them in touch with resources to help them develop a care plan for if their health takes a turn for the worse.
- If mom or dad can no longer make their own decisions to keep themselves safe, then you should determine whether they have in place legal documents that allow someone else to make decisions for them. These documents are a health care directive (for medical decisions) and a power of attorney (for financial decisions). Depending on the details of the documents and the particular circumstances that mom or dad face, these might be sufficient to allow someone else to act on mom or dad’s behalf.
- If mom or dad can no longer make their own decisions to keep themselves safe and they do not have any legal documents or other measures in place, then you likely need to pursue the appointment of a guardian and/or conservator for mom or dad. Most people find that they need the assistance of an attorney to do this.
If you have questions about how you can help your elderly parents with decision-making, please contact Cindi Spence of Spence Legal Services at (763) 682-2247.
The Minnesota Department of Human Services’ website has a very cool new tool that provides demographic and service data for regional, statewide and county levels.
The profiles include the following demographic and service data points. Each point is a separate tab on the dashboard:
- AGE – total population by age
- DIVERSITY – total population by race and ethnicity
- LIVING ALONE – persons age 65+ living alone
- POVERTY – persons age 65+ in poverty
- DEPENDENCY – old-age dependency ratio
- CAREGIVER – family caregiver ratio
- SPENDING – long-term services and supports expenditures
- HIGHER NEEDS – persons served with higher needs
- UTILIZATION – nursing home bed utilization
Here’s the link to the Minnesota Department of Human Services Aging Data Profiles dashboard.